Screening is always required, with no exceptions. I follow strict screening protocols for my safety as well as the safety of my Inner Circle. It is in my best interest to handle your information with the utmost care. My ability to continue in this world relies heavily on my reputation. It is part of my job to collect and secure your information, to discard it once we have met and to take your discretion and my own very seriously. 

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Please include your full and legal name. 

Please include your listed phone number. No burner phones or Google Voice numbers please. (No one will call you without your express permission.)

Please provide the names, email addresses and websites of 2-3 current references (this means within the past year). A reference isn't your mother, your college professor or your golf buddies. It's an established and reputable provider who is able to tell me what an absolute gentleman you are!

If you don't have references, please request to be screened through employment verification. My assistant, Sandi or I will walk you through this option. A discreet unpublished email address is available - simply ask.

Not sure what to say in your introductory message? If you remember interrogative pronouns i.e. who, what, when, where, why and sometimes how, contacting me is pretty simple.